Mum's the Word

Some phrases take on different meanings depending upon the way they are said.
On Mother’s Day, or Mothering Sunday, ‘Mum’s the word!’ loses all relevance if it is said very quietly. When it is whispered, it ceases to be about mothers. Perhaps not used so much today, the phrase in its original usage meant ‘keep quiet’ or ‘say nothing.’ Today we are more likely to hear the instruction ‘keep stumm.’ The old English word ‘mum’ and the German term ‘stumm’ come from the same original word meaning mute or silent.
That is hardly what Mother’s Day is all about. It has to be ‘MUM’s the word!’, for it is a joyful time of saying ‘Thank You’ to mothers or remembering with thankfulness all that they have done for their children – giving them life, being their support, supplying their needs, healing their wounds, encouraging their progress.
In Victorian times, when families were often separated in the search for work, Mother’s Day became a time of reunion when the family came together for a few hours, perhaps the only occasion in the year when it could happen. Often the family assembled for the morning service at church before going home to have lunch together, a real Mothering Sunday.
Now that’s a good idea, giving thanks to the Lord and then to Mum, and it would be an even better idea if Mum did not have to prepare the lunch. So it could be a quiet ‘Mum’s the word!’ as the arrangements are put in place without her knowing in order that it can be a real celebration, ‘MUM’s the word!’, so she will know just how much she is appreciated.








