How did Christmas Go?

Christmas can be a very difficult time for many people. Statistics show it is one of the worst times of the year for the break-up of relationships. Gifts given, or received, are not valued, decorations are criticised, effort put into preparation and organisation is not appreciated, and may take up time needed to keep relationships on track. Differences of opinion about everything from the choice of Christmas cards, and who should receive them, to the food to buy, the size of the Christmas tree and who to invite to any party planned, can put a strain on relationships.
It could have gone wrong at the first Christmas, when Jesus was a born. How did Mary feel about having to leave her mother back in Nazareth at such a critical time in her pregnancy. She had no experience of child-birth and Joseph was a carpenter, not a mid-wife? How did she feel when she arrived in Bethlehem to find that Joseph had not made any arrangements about accommodation? Not that it was easy to do so in those days without the postal, telephone or e-mail systems that we rely on today. How did Joseph react to any criticism? It could all have gone dreadfully wrong with their relationship.
But the Lord was with them and, above the joy of the safe delivery of their first-born child, there were surprises and extra delights. There were the unexpected visits of shepherds and wise men, each in their own way acknowledging that Jesus was special - a Saviour, said the shepherds, quoting the angels (Luke 2.17,11), and gifts from the wise men who bowed down and worshipped the young child
(Matthew 2.11).
Then there was the opportunity, as they were so close to Jerusalem while staying in Bethlehem, to take Jesus to the Temple ‘to present Him to the Lord’ (Luke 2.22 [GNB]). Where else should Jesus have been taken for this ceremony? The Temple was recognised as the place which signified the presence of God with His people. I’m sure that Joseph and Mary felt that it was only right and proper that they should take their God-given child to the central place in their nation’s religious life to dedicate Him to the Lord (Luke 2.23). It would have been an extra joy for them which they would not have experienced if they had been in Nazareth.
Furthermore, there was the additional confirmation of who Jesus was when, as they went into the Temple, Simeon saw the baby and straightway declared that Jesus was the Lord’s promised Messiah (Luke 2.26 [GNB]), and this was backed up by Anna (Luke 2.38).
Even if things didn’t go completely as desired at Christmas, give thanks for the things that did and for any unexpected delights that occurred, and thank those who put in so much effort to get your Christmas ready or help you to do so. And don’t forget to thank God for His special gift without which there wouldn’t be Christmas.








